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Girls: You too can also lead guys on. If you are doing this you are just as guilty as the guys. But I will bring up another issue too. You should not allow guys to lead you on, guard your hearts and make a guy be intentional, if he is not do not give him the time of day. Follow the concept of emotional purity! Where you are guarding your emotional commitment to guys as well as your physical. If a guy is pursuing you and you do not think he is ready for marriage or husband material than do not allow him to lead you on. When girls are lead on that usually means they have an emotional attachment to that guy, but a Christian girl should be a challenge. A guy should never think he has a chance at a casual relationship with her, he should be able to tell if he want’s something with her he needs to pursue God to get to her. I love the quote that says, “a woman’s heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her.” This is exactly how it should be.

Girls keep guidelines for friendships with Christian guys. If a guy is leading you on that usually means you have had time alone, or too much communication. Be aware of the signs of boundaries being crossed, and it’s your responsibility to be up front with the guy. If you are genuinely interested in the Christian guy then spend time with him in groups and make him go through the proper steps if he is into you. The proper steps being courting in my opinion. Don’t succumb to your desire for marriage, trust in God and make a man work hard to get to you. A guy who only wants attention from you or a casual relationship will not want to work hard. Guys can tell an easy girl from a mile away let him know you aren’t one.